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Wednesday, November 23, 2016 Nas 0 Comments


What does respect sounds like, to you?
Or, how does it even looks like?

You see, words really matter. Whether you’re saying it for yourself or for others to hear. How you sentenced them, to be exact.
Be it a compliment, a complaint, an opinion. The rules to speak them out loud aren’t that hard.
  • Don’t be disrespectful. No matter how furious you were at that moment.
  • Look to who you were talking to. Come on, living in this modern society doesn’t mean you can blatantly talk without even considering their age.
  • Hey, would you look for a split second if the timing is perfect for you to utter those words?
You can’t blame someone for being overly sensitive. It’s in their nature, who knows? You can’t just label them for being closed-minded just because they couldn’t take your jokes. 

Jokes that are off the limits.

Joking is fun. Releasing your stress by throwing jokes is fun. But throwing indecent words while the other side is not in the perfect state to receive those jokes is not fun. In fact, it’s not okay.

I apologize for my behavior that seemed unmindful (if I ever did that)
But if you think you ever did that to someone, lower your ego. Relay your apology to him/her even if you have the jokester temperament. 
Maybe it wasn’t the right time. Maybe he/she had gone through a bad day. Maybe it was their mood-swing-time-that-you-can’t-help-it

From another POV, don’t mix in your personal matter to work.
Vice-versa.

It’s not close to nice at all for you to throw tantrum/got pissed to someone who’s not involved in any of your mishap. 

You guys will just end up frowning to each other. The we-are-not-talking-phase. Kamon ah umur dah berapa?

Think, & act :)

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